For Mother91Ƶs Day, Langley91Ƶs Alisha Openshaw isn91Ƶt expecting too much.
91ƵI don91Ƶt have any plans for Mother91Ƶs Day, maybe just get a well-deserved sleep-in and spend the day being spoiled by my boys,91Ƶ she said.
Twins Weston and Bennett are four, not quite old enough to make mom breakfast by themselves, but old enough to deliver it.
91ƵIf my husband helps, they would likely be able to bring it up to me,91Ƶ Alisha said.
It would be a rare day of rest for Alisha, who estimates she averages at least three days a week on the road, driving her sons in from their Langley home for cancer treatments at B.C. Children91Ƶs Hospital (BCCH) in Vancouver, a route so familiar and automatic that she can arrive without remembering any of the turns along the way.
Her boys were both diagnosed with the same type of cancer, Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, within a few months of each other, in 2022.
Since then, 91Ƶit91Ƶs a whole new world,91Ƶ she commented, one of doctors, nurses and specialists, of chemo and other medical procedures, and sometimes long stays in the hospital,
Weston, who was the first brother to be diagnosed, has had a 91Ƶreally rough go,91Ƶ that included a six week stay in hospital that ended just in time for Christmas, Alisha advised.
Currently, both Weston and Bennett are doing well, 91Ƶother than them both being bald now,91Ƶ but their hair is growing back, and the twins are becoming their usual rambunctious selves.
91ƵThey91Ƶre both wild boys,91Ƶ she laughed.
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A video of their hospital visits, provided to the Langley Advance Times, showed the brothers happily rampaging through the hallways at BCCH with a toy wagon, showing they know where the switch is to open automatic doors, and the route to the outdoor play area.
91ƵThey91Ƶre very familiar with the hospitals and the treatments,91Ƶ Alisha commented.
91ƵThey91Ƶll be playing house, and [they will pretend] 91Ƶyou have to take your medicine91Ƶ.91Ƶ
The Mickey Mouse-loving twins enjoy playing with their older brother and cuddling with their 91ƵNana91Ƶ 91Ƶ grandma and spending time with their 91ƵAuntie,91Ƶ Alisha91Ƶs sister.
Alisha has also found support from what she described as a community of moms in similar situations.
91ƵWe call ourselves the 91Ƶmomcologists,91Ƶ Alisha said.
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Alisha is telling her family91Ƶs story to support BCCH, which is the only hospital in the province devoted exclusively to the care of children and youth.
Donor funding, through the B.C. Children91Ƶs Hospital Foundation, goes to providing medical equipment, help fund leading pediatric research and clinical care, and enhancing facilities, programs and initiatives.
The current campaign theme is 91Ƶjoin the mighty91Ƶ 91Ƶ donate to help mighty mothers and mighty children.
91ƵIt has been a difficult journey at times, and I haven91Ƶt always felt very strong, but I have had to remain mighty,91Ƶ Alisha commented.
91ƵStaying mighty for my boys is knowing exactly when they need a big hug, or when to crack a silly smile. Mighty is telling myself it91Ƶs okay to walk away and have a long, hard cry. Mighty is knowing when to ask for help. As a mom, this is how I need to show up 91Ƶ staying mighty when things get tough.91Ƶ
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