Geddy Lee is a rock star, that91Ƶs undeniable. But he91Ƶs also a polite Canadian to the core. So it91Ƶs fitting that the Rush icon picked a not-too-bawdy title for his memoir.
91ƵMy Effin91Ƶ Life91Ƶ is an engrossing tale of a 91Ƶclassic underachiever91Ƶ who became a Rock & Roll Hall of Fame vocalist, bassist, and keyboard player. It91Ƶs a great read for anyone interested in the brilliant prog-rock trio or the music scene from the 1970s onward.
Lee91Ƶs writing is a lot like his band91Ƶs songs 91Ƶ deep, gloriously nerdy, sometimes wandering and wonderfully thoughtful. It91Ƶs a 400-page narrative from a perfectionist who calls himself 91ƵMr. Bossypants.91Ƶ
91ƵIt91Ƶs a compulsion to exhaust every possibility to make the perfect record,91Ƶ he writes. 91ƵI don91Ƶt want to have to live with errors. Impossible, I know, but what91Ƶs the effin91Ƶ point of not shooting for the moon?91Ƶ
The book is enlivened by photos of scrawled lyric sheets, studio doodles and private emails as Lee traces the rise of a band who faced a pre-MTV landscape, a lack of coast-to-coast progressive radio network or sympathetic critics. One reviewer said he sounded like 91Ƶa guinea pig with an amphetamine habit.91Ƶ
Readers will go chronologically as Rush 91Ƶ including guitarist Alex Lifeson and drummer and lyricist Neil Peart 91Ƶ go from sleeping on luggage in the back of a rented station wagon to five-star hotels. Along the way there are dubious sartorial choices like kimonos and lots of cocaine.
The band 91Ƶ considered the patron saints of brainy, technical, ambitious rock 91Ƶ leans on all kinds of sources, from the sci-fi of Robert. A Heinlein and J.R.R. Tolkien, to Ayn Rand, Rod Serling and Jean-Paul Sartre.
There are hard-won tips for musicians, like never believing any producer who says 91ƵDon91Ƶt worry, lads. It91Ƶll all be fixed in the mix.91Ƶ Lee also advises bands to demand final approval on everything, offer soundchecks and take your wallet onstage. One tip seems universal: 91ƵDo NOT drop psychedelics before an interview.91Ƶ
It91Ƶs a treat to see Lee geek out on audio equipment 91Ƶ like 91Ƶthe JP-8 with its trendy arpeggiator fed by an 808 drum box91Ƶ 91Ƶ and later wine. Sipping a glass of 1978 Musigny he writes may be the most rewarding experience he91Ƶs had.
A private treasure is seeing the photo 91Ƶ snapped by a friend 91Ƶ that captured the moment Lee and his future wife Nancy first locked lips. 91ƵHow many folks can boast a relationship of 50-plus years and still have a photo of their very first kiss?91Ƶ he writes.
Lee throws shade at musician Billy Preston and producer Steve Lillywhite but also turns his critical eye on himself 91Ƶ his neuroses and poor husbanding 91Ƶ and his band, writing that with the album 91ƵVapor Trails,91Ƶ they 91Ƶdisappeared up our own asses.91Ƶ
One thing to beware of is Lee91Ƶs modesty, like the time he casually mentions that he became 91Ƶbesotted91Ƶ by baseball. In actuality, he has a massive collection of baseball memorabilia, including balls signed by the Beatles and Shoeless Joe Jackson.
Lee 91Ƶ born Gershon Eliezer Weinrib 91Ƶ was a 91Ƶshy, long-haired, brooding character91Ƶ who grew up in Toronto, born to parents who survived the Holocaust. This is not something he tosses off 91Ƶ it causes echoes throughout his life.
Chapter 3 91Ƶ Lee says you can skip it, but you mustn91Ƶt 91Ƶ is a meticulously examination of the horrific paths his parents took into hell, a 40-page indictment of Nazi evil that starts in Poland and ends with his mom rescued at Bergen-Belsen and dad from Dachau. Lee91Ƶs laser-focus on details is put to astounding use here.
He suspects his earliest vocal style may have been rooted in his childhood 91Ƶlistening to the stories of what my parents had endured in the camps, suffering all the bullying and alienation, so that when I did begin to sing it did come rushing out as a screaming banshee.91Ƶ
This is a memoir where tragedy seems always around the corner, especially later when bandmate Peart is tortured by loss. The memoir even ends with a scene in a Toronto cemetery where Lee introduces his grandson, Finnian, to the boy91Ƶs great-great grandfather 91Ƶ in the ground.
It may be hard in parts but always worth it. It91Ƶs an effin91Ƶ good read.
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