A funny thing happened to comedy star Mary Walsh as she got older 91Ƶ instead of slipping into the sad and gloomy decline society had warned her about, she found herself getting happier.
At first she thought it was just her, but then she researched it and realized science has shown it91Ƶs a common feeling that comes with age, 91Ƶno matter what your physical ailments or your money situation.91Ƶ
91ƵNow, if you have been miserably unhappy, you91Ƶre not going to shine with the light of 10,000 suns, but you91Ƶre going to be happier than you were when you were 46 when you91Ƶre 66,91Ƶ says the St. John91Ƶs satirist, who recently gave a TEDx Talk in Toronto about old-age happiness.
91ƵI remember reading years and years ago that life was full of 1,000 tendernesses and thinking, 91ƵOh yeah.91Ƶ But then it hit me: that is true. As I get older and more wrinkly, I can91Ƶt see myself really because my eyes are gone, and so when I look in the mirror, I look quite good,91Ƶ the 66-year-old continues with a laugh.
91ƵIt91Ƶs the world being tender with you. You91Ƶre losing everything that you have, everything that you91Ƶve depended on, everything that you91Ƶve known 91Ƶ and to make up for that, you91Ƶre happier.91Ƶ
Indeed, Walsh appears to be living her best life these days.
The creator of the CBC comedy 91ƵThis Hour Has 22 Minutes91Ƶ was announced Thursday as the recipient of the Earle Grey Award at this year91Ƶs Canadian Screen Awards, set for March 31.
The award is for her body of work, which has also included starring in the 1980s-91Ƶ90s 91ƵCODCO91Ƶ sketch comedy series, and writing, producing and starring in the mid-2000s sitcom 91ƵHatching, Matching and Dispatching.91Ƶ
91ƵI keep trying to be very calm about it and go, 91ƵYes, I91Ƶm very good,91Ƶ but actually inside I91Ƶm leaping up and down and bubbling,91Ƶ Walsh says. 91ƵIt is, of course, a great honour.91Ƶ
It91Ƶs one of many things Walsh has on the go.
She91Ƶs currently starring in the CBC series 91ƵLittle Dog,91Ƶ preparing for another appearance on 91Ƶ22 Minutes91Ƶ and planning a cross-Canada trip with 91Ƶ22 Minutes91Ƶ cast member Cathy Jones to record online sketches featuring their 91Ƶold-lady characters.91Ƶ
Walsh is also doing a short documentary with the National Film Board of Canada on how 91Ƶwomen get more radical as they age.91Ƶ
91ƵAgain with the 1,000 tendernesses theme that I seem to be playing, we find ourselves sexually invisible at some point. We find that we91Ƶre not the object of anyone91Ƶs desire anymore, we fall out of that place,91Ƶ Walsh says in discussing the doc.
91ƵBut the big payoff for that is we suddenly become the subject of our own lives for the first time91Ƶ. It is a great revelation, to get older and to just feel that freedom of being the subject of your own life as opposed to longing to be the object of someone else91Ƶs desire.91Ƶ
Walsh is also writing a feature film screenplay about Newfoundland and Labrador91Ƶs 1966 Come Home Year civic event, in which those who hailed from the province were encouraged to return. The story features a 13-year-old girl who is sent back 91Ƶto the people who didn91Ƶt want her in the first place,91Ƶ Walsh says.
The film is taking longer to write than Walsh expected.
91ƵI find that all mountains are steep now and that all steps are more slow,91Ƶ she says.
But she doesn91Ƶt lose heart over such matters anymore.
91ƵI think, 91ƵNo, I91Ƶll just keep going. I91Ƶll get a chance at it again. I91Ƶll sit down at it again and I91Ƶll keep going,91Ƶ91Ƶ says Walsh, who is also a mental-health advocate.
91ƵWhereas before I would just go, 91ƵOh, well, obviously then I91Ƶm not meant to do that,91Ƶ and say goodbye.91Ƶ
Victoria Ahearn, The Canadian Press
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