Handing out sandwiches to those who are cold and hungry.
Baking 5,000 cookies for various causes.
Holding a door.
Each gesture 91Ƶ great or small 91Ƶ kicks off a ripple of kindness that spreads far beyond the source.
They won91Ƶt fill the void left by a sister taken too soon, but each serves as a small salve in the grieving process for Greater Victoria teen Felix Townsin.
91ƵIt91Ƶs not easy to keep going when grief feels so heavy, but every act of love we inspire feels like she is still right here with us,91Ƶ Felix told Victoria News. 91ƵLexi was pure love.
91ƵShe had the biggest heart and made everyone feel like the best version of themselves. She 91Ƶ just wanted to give and feel love. That was her gift to the world, and even though she91Ƶs no longer here, her love continues to inspire everything we do.91Ƶ
The Royal Bay Secondary student was nine when he lost his little sister. After battling the rare genetic disorder Blau Syndrome, Lexi Townsin died at the age of six 91Ƶ just weeks before what would have been her seventh birthday, Dec. 16, 2019. That milestone, followed so closely by what was a joyful family favourite 91Ƶ Christmas 91Ƶ makes the month particularly challenging for the Victoria teen and his family.
91ƵThe holidays without her are excruciating,91Ƶ Felix said. 91ƵI was just 9, and we didn91Ƶt know how to celebrate her birthday without her. Then we started talking about how Lexi didn91Ƶt want presents; she wanted love. That91Ƶs something we could still give.91Ƶ
Last year he targeted 500 acts of love. This year, Lexi91Ƶs legacy lives on in Felix91Ƶs campaign to document A Million Acts of Love by what would have been her 12th birthday on Dec. 16.
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91ƵOne million is more than just a number 91Ƶ it91Ƶs a movement,91Ƶ Felix told Victoria News. 91ƵIt shows the power of collective action, of people coming together to make the world a kinder place. We all have causes we care about, but when we work together, the impact is even greater. When we reach one million acts, it will mean that Lexi's love has touched a million lives. It91Ƶs proof that even though she91Ƶs gone, her spirit continues to make the world a better place.91Ƶ
The years of 91Ƶspreading Lexi love91Ƶ are still filled with heavy grief and doses of inspiring acts of love.
An education assistant at John Stubbs school has painted and shared more than 1,000 rocks with uplifting messages. The Reynolds secondary robotics club has documented more than 400 acts of love by mentoring younger students.
On Dec. 14, the campaign partners with Lumara Grief Group in Vancouver to distribute socks, gloves and snacks to people in need on Vancouver91Ƶs Eastside.
91ƵWe91Ƶll bring music to brighten the day and create moments of connection and love,91Ƶ Felix said.
An act of love can be as simple as supporting the campaign tree in the Bay Centre91Ƶs Festival of Trees, where funds raised benefit the BC Children91Ƶs Hospital.
91ƵThe impact has been life-changing 91Ƶ not just for me, but for so many others,91Ƶ Felix said. 91ƵI have transformed my pain into purpose and it has helped me survive this loss.91Ƶ
A kid called Cal comes to mind. The boy struggled in school until his education assistant introduced him to A Million Acts of Love which turned into feeding his classmates through Cal and Amanda's Cookin' for Lexi.
91ƵThey ended up making 1,008 meals and treats for his school community. His education assistant said his confidence grew by 1,000 per cent, and his mom told me it transformed his life. 91ƵThis campaign isn91Ƶt just about the people receiving acts of love 91Ƶ it91Ƶs about the incredible transformation for the givers too. Showing kindness builds community and resilience.91Ƶ
The campaign is creatively designed to be as accessible as possible. To know they91Ƶve reached one million, they need people to sign up at and give their name and number. Sharing stories is optional but welcome online using #amillionactsoflove and @amillionactsoflove or by emailing .
Felix plans to push on with kindness into 2025, encouraging folks to join the #Love365 Challenge.
91ƵIt91Ƶs not about money or grand gestures 91Ƶ it91Ƶs something people of all ages and backgrounds can do. As we head into a new year, we are challenging people to sign up for 365 Acts of Love 91Ƶ one small, intentional act of kindness every day for a year. Imagine the difference we could make if everyone did that.91Ƶ