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Social media91Ƶs 70-up 91Ƶgrandfluencers91Ƶ debunking aging myths

Most people ages 50 and up use technology to stay connected to friends and family, according to a 2019 survey by AARP
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Senior influencer Sandra Sallin, 80, poses for a portrait at home, Friday, Aug. 20, 2021, in Los Angeles. Sallin is among a growing number of seniors making names for themselves on social media. (AP Photo/Chris Pizzello)

Joan MacDonald91Ƶs health was in shambles at age 71. She was overweight and on numerous medications with high cholesterol, rising blood pressure and kidney trouble.

Her daughter, a fitness coach, warned that she91Ƶd wind up an invalid if she didn91Ƶt turn things around. She did, hitting the gym for the first time and learning to balance her diet with the help of a brand new tool, an iPhone.

Now 75, MacDonald is a hype beast for health with a bodybuilder91Ƶs physique and 1.4 million loyal followers on Instagram.

She91Ƶs among a growing number of 91Ƶgrandfluencers,91Ƶ folks 70 and up who have amassed substantial followings on social media with the help of decades-younger fans.

91ƵIt91Ƶs so rare to find someone her age being able to do all these things,91Ƶ said one of her admirers, 18-year-old Marianne Zapata of Larchmont, New York. 91ƵIt91Ƶs just such a positive thing to even think about.91Ƶ

Both aspirational and inspirational, older influencers are turning their digital platforms into gold.

MacDonald has paid partnerships with the sportswear and supplement brand Women91Ƶs Best, and the stress-busting device Sensate. And she just launched her own health and fitness app not so many years after learning how to use digital technology herself.

On TikTok, four friends who go by @oldgays 91Ƶ the youngest is 65 91Ƶ have 2.2 million followers, including Rihanna. They have an endorsement deal with Grindr as they delight fans with their clueless answers to pop culture questions.

Others focus on beauty and style, setting up Amazon closets with their go-to looks and putting on makeup tutorials live. Lagetta Wayne, at 78, has teens asking her to be their grandmother as she tends to her vegetables and cooks them up in Suisun City, California, as @msgrandmasgarden on TikTok.

Wayne, with 130,500 followers amassed since joining in June 2020, owes her social media success to a teenage granddaughter. Her very first video, a garden tour, clocked 37,600 likes.

91ƵOne day my garden was very pretty and I got all excited about that and I asked her if she would take some pictures of me,91Ƶ Wayne recalled. 91ƵShe said she was going to put me on TikTok and I said, well, what is TikTok? I had never heard of it.91Ƶ

Most people ages 50 and up use technology to stay connected to friends and family, according to a by AARP. But less than half use social media daily for that purpose, relying on Facebook above other platforms.

Just 37% of those 70 and older used social media daily in 2019, the research showed. Since coronavirus struck, older creators have expanded their horizons beyond mainstay Facebook and gotten more voracious, often driven by the growing number of feeds by people their own age, said Alison Bryant, senior vice president for AARP.

In the California desert town of Cathedral City, Jessay Martin is the second youngest of the Old Gays at 68.

91ƵI thought I was going to spend the rest of my life relaxing pretty much, and I do, but this is picking up more for us. I had a very structured week where Monday I worked the food bank at the senior center, Tuesday and Friday I did yoga for an hour and a half, Wednesday I was on the front desk at the senior center. I was just sort of floating by, not being social, not putting myself out there in the gay community. And boy, has the Old Gays changed that,91Ƶ Martin said.

Like MacDonald, they do a lot of myth busting about what91Ƶs possible in life91Ƶs sixth, seventh and eighth decades.

91ƵThey91Ƶre showing that anybody can do these things, that you don91Ƶt have to be afraid of aging. The 20 and 30 somethings don91Ƶt often think about that,91Ƶ Bryant said. 91ƵThe authenticity that we91Ƶre seeing in some of these older influencers is really refreshing. That91Ƶs part of the complexity of their narratives. They91Ƶre bringing other parts of their lives to it. They91Ƶre grandparents and great-grandparents and spouses. They91Ƶre more comfortable in their own skins.91Ƶ

Sandra Sallin, a blogger and artist, has slowly built her following to 25,300 on Instagram. Her reach recently extended to the British Olympic gold-medal diver Tom Daley, who raved about her mother91Ƶs cheesecake recipe after his coach spotted it online and made it for her athletes and staff. Sallin, a lover of lipstick who focuses on cooking and beauty, also shares photos from her past and other adventures, like her turn last year in a vintage Spitfire high above the Cliffs of Dover.

91ƵI wanted to expand my world. I felt that I was older, that my world was shrinking. People were moving, people were ill,91Ƶ Sallin said. 91ƵSo I started my blog because I wanted to reach out. After that, I heard about this thing called Instagram. It was really hard learning it. I really stumbled my way in. I91Ƶm shocked because most people who follow me are 30 and 40 years younger. But there are people who are older, who have kind of given up and say, 91ƵYou know, I91Ƶm going to start wearing lipstick.91Ƶ91Ƶ

Toby Bloomberg, 69, in Atlanta is a Sallin supporter. She discovered Sallin after Sallin competed on the short-lived Food Network show 91ƵClash of the Grandmas.91Ƶ

91ƵShe talks a lot about aging. That91Ƶs quite an unusual phenomenon on social media, which is obviously dominated by people far younger than we are,91Ƶ Bloomberg said.

MacDonald said she was surprised at the beginning that people actually cared what she had to say.

91ƵWhy would people want to follow an old broad,91Ƶ she giggled from her home in Ontario, Canada. 91ƵMy daughter, Michelle, cleared that up. She said it91Ƶs what you91Ƶre representing, that people can do what they think they91Ƶve not been able to do or were told that they couldn91Ƶt do.91Ƶ

Grace Maier, 32, is home full time with her two kids, ages 6 months and 2. She follows Barbara Costello, a 72-year-old Connecticut grandmother who uses the handle @brunchwithbabs.

91ƵShe does these posts, 91ƵDid your mom ever tell you?91Ƶ and I followed her immediately on Instagram,91Ƶ Maier said. 91ƵHer content brings me joy! She91Ƶs got all of these life hacks and tips that remind me of things my grandma shared with me before she passed. She also doesn91Ƶt take herself too seriously and just seems like the kind of person who would welcome you into her home.91Ƶ

Mae Karwowski, founder and CEO of the influencer marketing agency Obviously, has more than 100 influencers in her network between the ages of 60 and 80. With more than a billion users on Instagram alone, she points to the successes on that platform of 93-year-old Helen Ruth Elam (baddiewinkle), 67-year-old Lyn Slater (iconaccidental) and 100-year-old style legend Iris Apfel.

There91Ƶs another aspect to the reach of seniors: Grandparents and grandchildren who have teamed up to share their adventures together, from traveling the world to Nerf gun battles.

91ƵMainstream media, I would say, presents a really narrow viewpoint on this age group. What91Ƶs great about social media is you can follow a really cool 75-year-old woman who is just doing her thing in Florida and that91Ƶs fun. That91Ƶs different. And she91Ƶs funny,91Ƶ Karwowski said. 91ƵThe 21-year-old fashion model influencer is managed. She has a team. She has designers falling all over themselves to give her everything. She has professional photographers. A lot of these 70-plus influencers are doing it all.91Ƶ

Candace Cima, 74, taught herself to shoot and edit video for Instagram by watching YouTube tutorials. She hopped on the platform in February 2019 as a fresh voice on fashion and style while encouraging her audience not to be afraid of aging. Her husband sometimes helps out with photos for @styleinyour70s.withleslieb (Leslie is her middle name).

91ƵI91Ƶm still in that learning curve, I have to be honest. Two and a half years ago, I didn91Ƶt even know what an influencer was,91Ƶ said Cima, in Ithaca, New York. 91ƵI91Ƶve always had a lot of ideas about aging. I don91Ƶt understand why aging has such a negative connotation.91Ƶ

With 37,900 followers, some of her youngest fans have shared with her why they care: 91ƵThey don91Ƶt want to age the way they saw their relatives aging,91Ƶ Cima said. 91ƵThey feel like they can learn something.91Ƶ

Leanne Italie, The Associated Press

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