By: Aslam (he/they) & Lee (she/they) 91Ƶ Provincial Youth Advisors, writers with Foundry BC
It91Ƶs July 2019 and the sun is beaming in Aslam91Ƶs life. They91Ƶve just graduated and like many others, have hopes for a bright future in the big city 91Ƶ being openly queer and comfortable, making new friends, and being immersed in the multicultural downtown square.
One year later, when COVID-19 became a global pandemic, the isolation caused their mental health to worsen and along with it, a rising battle with substance use, making it near impossible for Aslam to access resources.
91ƵAt first, I wasn91Ƶt even aware that I was at my worst,91Ƶ Aslam recalls. 91ƵI was so used to my routine: wake up, still feeling numb and empty, pack a bowl and take a couple of tokes out of my bedroom window, then go back to sleep. It was intense denial and numbing.91Ƶ
Last summer, Aslam gained the courage to reach out and receive help for their substance use and mental health challenges. They went to , an integrated youth service that provides mental health care, substance use services, physical and sexual health care, youth and family peer support and social services for young people ages 12-24 and their families/caregivers across BC.
91ƵI was struggling my whole life and thought that self-medicating with drugs and alcohol was easier than speaking about what I had gone through,91Ƶ says Aslam. Over the last couple of months, they also worked with doctors and peer support workers to begin taking medications, speaking to a physician regularly and learning harm reduction strategies.
Similarly, Lee, a Foundry provincial youth advisor alongside Aslam, also experienced worsening mental health during the pandemic. As Foundry provincial youth advisors, both Aslam and Lee share their perspectives to make Foundry services youth-friendly and inclusive to others.
91ƵFoundry is different from a lot of other places91Ƶit91Ƶs a community shaped by youth with diverse, living experiences,91Ƶ Lee shares. 91ƵTo those of you who feel isolated or lonely 91Ƶ know that you are not alone. I felt stuck for a long time and with help, I realized the way I had been living was not the path I had to follow.91Ƶ
91ƵWhen I went to Foundry, I was accepted,91Ƶ says Aslam. 91ƵI didn91Ƶt need to explain why I made the choices I did because they already knew why, and they didn91Ƶt care. They just wanted me to feel supported and loved.91Ƶ
At Foundry, no problem is too small or too big. Young people can walk into a local Foundry centre, explore online tools and resources at foundrybc.ca, or through the Foundry BC app.
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