Jillian Roberts, a clinical psychologist and professor of educational psychology at UVic, has written a children91裸聊视频檚 book to help young readers foster lasting friendships. 

The Friendship Guide, which will hit bookshelves on Feb. 11, offers kids valuable buddy-building tips, each of which is informed by Roberts' decades of in-clinic youth counselling experience.

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The psychologist, who owns counselling clinics in Victoria, Sidney and Langford, was driven to write the book to help address problems that stem from the pandemic.

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Many of the youngsters lacking peer connections had trouble readjusting to group and social settings post-COVID-19, and Roberts is optimistic The Friendship Guide will help them mitigate these challenges.

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She added that, left unaddressed, these challenges can create long-term problems. 

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Roberts is also hopeful her new work will help parents chat openly with their children about social isolation and relationship building.

"If we're talking with young children about friendship skills, and we're teaching it just like we teach everything else, it sends the message to kids that we don't expect that they have all this figured out,91裸聊视频� she said. "For those families that are wanting to do something and be helpful to their child right now, the book gives families a really, really solid starting point.91裸聊视频�