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COVID-19 restrictions lifting at B.C. seniors home 91Ƶabsolutely91Ƶ a big deal

Doris Gage, 95, is set to celebrate her great-grandson91Ƶs 1st birthday July 24
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Doris Gage (left) poses with her grandson Nash and her granddaughter Meghan Mitchell on April 1, 2021, when restrictions were lifted to allow in-suite visits. (Contributed photo)

Today (July 24) may not be the first time that South Surrey senior Doris Gage gets to hold her great-grandson Nash, but it will be the first time she does it amongst a crowd of more than two dozen family and friends, as they gather at a Langley park to celebrate his first birthday.

91ƵThe day we brought him home she was able to hold him,91Ƶ Gage91Ƶs granddaughter Meghan Mitchell recalled Friday (July 23), of Nash91Ƶs mid-pandemic arrival.

91ƵBut then there were lulls91Ƶ sometimes three weeks or a month went by that I didn91Ƶt bring him91Ƶ for visits.

91ƵIt91Ƶs been quite a year, to say the least.91Ƶ

Gage, 95, has been living at Amica White Rock since last September, after moving from her White Rock apartment to an independent-living unit six months after the pandemic was declared.

At the time, public-health restrictions meant she went into an immediate two-week isolation period. And after that, months passed where visits were essentially limited to one person and had to be carefully planned. As well, personal protective equipment was an essential part of the equation and pre-pandemic norms such as hugging were off the table, seemingly indefinitely.

Mitchell, who describes herself as 91Ƶa hugger91Ƶ and her family as 91Ƶvery, very close,91Ƶ remembers it was difficult to adjust to life without that physical contact, and, sadly, how it initially felt foreign when restrictions started to ease in April, and those connections were once again within reach.

They came after a year of living with the fear of inadvertently exposing Gage 91Ƶ affectionately called 91ƵNan91Ƶ 91Ƶ to COVID-19, despite following all the rules and taking all the precautions.

91ƵOh my gosh, our first big hug was April 1 91Ƶ the first time, I want to say, almost since Nash was born,91Ƶ she said. 91ƵIt was kind of the most awkward hug, because it had been so long.

91ƵIt was almost like, oh my gosh, this is happening? Now, it91Ƶs second-nature.91Ƶ

This week91Ƶs news that fully vaccinated visitors no longer have to schedule visits, wear masks or keep their distance from residents in their rooms is 91Ƶabsolutely91Ƶ a big deal, Mitchell said. It means Mitchell and her partner can visit Gage together, the entire family can plan dinners and visits and outings, there91Ƶs no screening process for visits, and if Gage has plans to go out, 91Ƶshe signs herself out.91Ƶ

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91ƵJust being able to celebrate,91Ƶ Mitchell added. 91ƵUs being unmasked and being able to see people91Ƶs faces is huge.91Ƶ

That latter piece alone has been interesting with Nash, she added. The tot91Ƶs life to date has consisted of interactions with mostly masked individuals, and now she and her partner get to watch as he processes that there91Ƶs 91Ƶa whole other part91Ƶ to people91Ƶs faces.

When it comes to her Nan, however, there91Ƶs still a hint of fear where COVID is concerned, Mitchell admits.

91ƵOur family is still COVID-cautious,91Ƶ she said, 91Ƶbecause she is 95.91Ƶ

91ƵWe still wear masks in the car91Ƶ we91Ƶre still quite cautious with that, because that91Ƶs our biggest fear, is getting Nan sick, because even a cold for her is worrisome at times.91Ƶ



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