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91ƵTheir safety is important91Ƶ: Group checks on women, talks consent at Nelson bars

The Mama Bears of Baker Street have received Interior Health funding to patrol the party scene
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Meet the Mama Bears of Baker Street. L-R: Dan Nolan, Cat Spears and Skye Spears were on Nelson91Ƶs streets during St. Patrick91Ƶs Day celebrations to check on intoxicated women, provide supplies and chat about consent. Photo: Tyler Harper

It91Ƶs St. Patrick91Ƶs Day in Nelson and the party is well underway as a diminutive woman slips through a crowded bar.

Cat Spears approaches a tipsy women with a smile and supplies. How are they feeling? Do they want some juice or candy? Condoms or snort straws? Are they comfortable with who they might go home with?

Then she asks the question that brought her here: 91ƵWhat does consent mean to you?91Ƶ

91ƵIt means that both people are on the same page,91Ƶ responds one young woman, and Spears looks relieved by the simple but acceptable answer.

Spears, who works as a family support worker at Kootenay Kids, is in charge of a new Interior Health-backed group called Mama Bears of Baker Street. Once a month, on days when the city91Ƶs bars are likely to be busy, Spears and a handful of others dressed in pink walk Nelson91Ƶs streets checking on women.

Usually the interactions are brief. The volunteers carry snacks and various items like hand warmers, cup condoms and fentanyl test strips. Occasionally they ask if the woman feels safe going home with someone, or if they need a taxi called.

No one seems to mind, and Spears is always thanked for checking in. One man even fist bumps her. 91ƵYou91Ƶre a beautiful human being,91Ƶ he says.

Impromptu chats about consent 91Ƶ which 91Ƶa freely given enthusiastic yes, ongoing, continuously discussed, and can be taken away at any time91Ƶ 91Ƶ might interrupt the good times.

But Spears isn91Ƶt surprised by how educated and gracious people are, even when they are intoxicated.

91ƵNelson91Ƶs known for being such like a drunk festival little town, but it91Ƶs also known for the harm reduction, and that demographic of some really strong, vocal people. Nobody was really blown away, really shocked that we were out there.91Ƶ

Spears calls consent her passion. For over a decade she has been a consent ambassador at Shambhala Music Festival, runs classes teaching consent at Kootenay Kids, and perhaps once a year advises women who say they91Ƶve been drugged and sexually assaulted at a Nelson bar.

There91Ƶs need for her work. A study released last year by the Canadian Women91Ƶs Foundation found in sexual activity. Police-reported sexual assaults in Canada also rose by 18 per cent in 2021, according to Statistics Canada.

Despite her efforts, Spears wondered if there might be something more she could do. Maybe, she decided, she could start checking on women before they run into problems.

91ƵI could take it even a step further and be out there saying, 91ƵHey, you91Ƶre walking a little bit wobbly there. Where are you going? Who are you going with? Do you need a cab? Are you leaving?91Ƶ91Ƶ

She considered New Year91Ƶs Eve, and decided she would go out on her own. Three local bars gave prior approval to visit, and from 10 p.m. to last call Spears and a few others spent the night making sure women were safe.

The night was a success, and earlier this year Interior Health provided $5,000 in funding that Spears uses on supplies and a small stipend to volunteers.

The Mama Bears of Baker Street aren91Ƶt the first such group to take consent education into bars. Good Night Out Vancouver, a non-profit society, leads sexual violence prevention with festivals and bars.

But Spears91Ƶ group is new to Nelson91Ƶs night life, and hard to miss with their pink bandannas and the word consent in bold on their backpacks. She hopes they become ubiquitous, and welcomed, by the city91Ƶs bars and patrons.

91ƵI want women to know that their safety is important.91Ƶ

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Tyler Harper

About the Author: Tyler Harper

I91Ƶm editor-reporter at the Nelson Star, where I91Ƶve worked since 2015.
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