Women fleeing violent relationships are facing tremendous hurdles due to COVID-19.

Last year, the Kelowna Women91裸聊视频檚 Shelter housed 186 women and children in the city. But they turned away 163 women seeking solace from violence, due to a lack of space.

The shelter has now partnered with a local hotel to temporarily house 10 women and their children. Yet, it91裸聊视频檚 simply a sliver of a problem only worsened during the pandemic.

In the past year, the shelter has seen a sharp spike in the number and severity of violent incidents at home.

With COVID-19 guidelines, socializing is prohibited, and women have not been able to lean on each other as they may have in the past. Group counselling, meetings and personal connections are literally off the table.

One woman, her name withheld due to privacy, staying in the hotel spoke to the Capital News about her experiences. While staying in the hotel is a welcome escape from a harmful situation, the separation from support has been difficult.

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Meeting with other women in similar circumstances wold 91裸聊视频渃reate some comradely and some support91裸聊视频� for people leaving violence, she said. An outreach work stops by the hotel four times a week, to help women one-on-one. However, one recipient of this attention described it as understaffed.

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The executive director of the Kelowna Women91裸聊视频檚 Shelter said when the time is right to meet again as groups and heal together, they91裸聊视频榣l do so. For now, they will continue to obey health regulations.

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The Kelowna Women91裸聊视频檚 Shelter said the topic of isolation speaks to a much larger issue. If it was up to her, Kelowna Women91裸聊视频檚 Shelter Executive Director, Allison McLauchlan would flip the system on its head.

Every night, hundreds of women and children are turned away from shelters in Canada because the facilities are full.

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McLauchlan would like to see care continue for women and children through transitional housing emergency shelters. Next, a second stage of care, where women can stay longer in normal units and still get case management support. And finally, provide long-term housing opportunities to women and their families.

Only a few large cities in Canada have access to all three stages of support 91裸聊视频� Kelowna is not on that list. The use of 10 local hotel rooms as shelter is new since the pandemic began. In the past, they have had the option of using hotels in situations where violence is a concern, but never before has the shelter been able to use them long-term, with costs covered by BC Housing.

Since receiving access to the hotel rooms last year, McLauchlan said they have never been empty.

91裸聊视频淚s it isolating? Absolutely, it is. Is having someone long-term in a hotel the ideal situation? No. Is it the best that we can do to try and get women to safety in these times? Yeah. Could we do more? Of course.91裸聊视频�

Many of these decisions are beyond the administrators of a shelter.

Even with all the hotel rooms in the world, the problem won91裸聊视频檛 go away.

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For right now, McLaughlan said it91裸聊视频檚 important people talk about what is happening in their own homes.

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