Sometimes it feels like the whole world is going crazy.

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As per Wikipedia, 91裸聊视频渇ear, is a feeling induced by perceived danger or threat 91裸聊视频�91裸聊视频� This is a very basic definition, but Auntie wants you to be aware of it and the affect it can have on your life. Fear can sometimes be a visceral response based totally out of emotion instead of rational thought. Imagine having to speak in front of a crowd. There91裸聊视频檚 no real physical threat yet it can cause you to freeze and be unable to function. What may be a breeze for some is sheer terror for another. There91裸聊视频檚 also the deep seeded fear involving the fight or flight response where life and death appear imminent 91裸聊视频� like fleeing a wildfire.

Do you know where your fears lie? Is your fear based globally, in your community, in your own home or maybe even in your own head? Does fear grip you when you watch YouTube or newscasts? Does it creep in every morning as you91裸聊视频檙e opening your eyes? Is the fear external or internal? Do you fear for yourself or for others?

That91裸聊视频檚 a lot of questions I know, but if you stop and think, it may help clarify your own situation. Fear can rule your life through manifestations of anxiety, stress and heightened awareness; fear may also creep into decision making, thus shattering your confidence and blocking the freedom to be who you really are (or want to be).

What happened in Manchester, was heartbreaking and senseless. It91裸聊视频檚 an extreme act specifically meant to instill fear and the likelihood of that happening to you is so remote that unless you91裸聊视频檙e traveling in high risk areas, your radar can be lowered. It91裸聊视频檚 the same with recurring natural disasters, such as wildfires, earthquakes, or hurricanes 91裸聊视频� just to name a few. Media often shove them to the forefront and this can heighten fear. If you91裸聊视频檙e at ground zero, you have no choice but to act, but if you91裸聊视频檙e out of the zone and still have a fear of a natural disaster striking, you may need to take a deep breath and step back turn off Facebook/YouTube, make a plan of action if/when something does happen, and accept that your fear may be larger than the reality of the situation.

Depending on where you find yourself in relation to fear, you may have to go talk to a professional. If your fear hinders everyday activity, is present even though you know it91裸聊视频檚 not rational, or is so crippling that functioning through daily life is difficult, then you need to seek help. A good start may be with your family doctor or local mental health.

The thing is, you can never, ever, give up hope. Fear itself can be so debilitating and drive you to your knees but it doesn91裸聊视频檛 have to rule your life. Knowledge is power and sometimes when you sit down and study the reality of the situation and what can and can91裸聊视频檛 happen, you empower yourself and feel more in control. Try it.

So, is fear holding you back from doing what you want, or need, to do? You91裸聊视频檙e the only one that can answer this and it may be harder than you think. The answer is very telling as it shows where you are in many areas of your life. Whether it be maturity, confidence, or a willingness to explore alternatives to live, or think, outside of the box, you91裸聊视频檙e the only one that can identify and deal with it.

As an Auntie, I91裸聊视频檝e seen many young people miss opportunities simply because they couldn91裸聊视频檛 find the courage within themselves to move forward.

The world is a crazy, scary place sometimes, I know, but somehow, you91裸聊视频檒l find your way because the alternative is scary too.

Faye Arcand is a freelance writer living in the South Okanagan. Email faye.arcand@icloud.com