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WESTNEAT: A reply from Canada: 91ƵWe91Ƶre sorry, but apology not accepted91Ƶ

91ƵLove it or leave it91Ƶ Americans did not disappoint, but Canada replies were the most interesting
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Motorists wait at U.S. Customs and Border Protection inspection booths at the Peace Arch border crossing in Blaine, Wash., across the Canada-U.S. border in 2021. THE CANADIAN PRESS/Darryl Dyck

When I did something kind of un-American last week by apologizing to Canadians for the Trump administration91Ƶs hostile imperialism toward them, I knew I was going to get pilloried by some here at home.

On cue, the 91Ƶlove it or leave it91Ƶ types did not disappoint.

91ƵYou should move to Canada you traitor, or better idea, we should deport you,91Ƶ wrote a reader from Colorado 91Ƶ one of several hundred emails I got suggesting that when it comes to me, America might no longer be the land of the free.

More compelling for U.S. readers to grapple with were the many hundreds of responses that poured in from British Columbia, Manitoba, Saskatchewan and other far-flung parts of our northern neighbour (as they spell it).

It turns out many Canadians aren91Ƶt really into diplomacy or making nice right now.

Summed up an emailer from Yellowknife, a town way up in the Northwest Territories: 91ƵYou can take your sorry and stuff it where the Arctic sun don91Ƶt shine.91Ƶ

The column got reprinted in papers across Canada and shared on Canadian social media. The most, uh, colorful thread about it was on the country91Ƶs largest subreddit, r/Canada, which has 3.4 million members (10% of the country91Ƶs adult population).

One Canadian there hinted at the pile-on to come: 91ƵJust because we apologize a lot does not mean we forgive easily.91Ƶ

Said another: 91ƵTo quote an American, 91ƵYou can stuff your sorries in a sack!91Ƶ91Ƶ

Said a third: 91ƵWe91Ƶre kind of pros when it comes to sorries, so Yanks telling us sorry is like gifting a loaf of Wonder Bread to a Parisian.91Ƶ

91ƵApologizing to us is just as useless as 91Ƶthoughts and prayers,91Ƶ91Ƶ echoed a fourth.

91ƵIt91Ƶs not our 91Ƶ job to make you feel better. This 91Ƶemotional support Canadian91Ƶ is done,91Ƶ said a fifth.

91ƵThey91Ƶll still be saying sorry when the American 1st Armored rolls into Ottawa,91Ƶ said a sixth.

It went on like this for nearly 800 comments. I felt like a Mariners fan at a Toronto Blue Jays game. I have to admit they have a knack for the gentle insertion of the savage barb.

I especially appreciated the many copies of a meme sent to me showing a beaver dragging a tree branch across a road, with the caption 91ƵCanada begins construction of a wall at US-Canada border.91Ƶ

Other Canadians, though, said the oppressive level of threat coming from the U.S. government is no joke.

91ƵWe are so pissed and anxious right now,91Ƶ wrote Tom Levesque of Halifax, Nova Scotia. 91ƵWe feel forgotten and laughed off. The 51st state stuff is NOT funny up here.91Ƶ

Wrote Gord Gilmour, from Manitoba: 91ƵCongratulations on your speed run to try to position yourself as a 91Ƶgood German91Ƶ prior to whatever it is that your dear leader gets up to in the next four years 91Ƶ But your apology is hollow and meaningless 91Ƶ At this point in history, you are a nation of gangsters, thugs and confidence men.91Ƶ

The 91Ƶgood German91Ƶ slight does sting 91Ƶ he91Ƶs referring to those who claimed not to have supported Hitler or the Nazis, but who stayed silent about it and did nothing to resist.

I91Ƶve been arguing for years that Donald Trump is an anti-democratic charlatan, to the point that he shouldn91Ƶt have even been allowed on the ballot, let alone elected. I don91Ƶt think I qualify as someone who has stayed silent.

But I91Ƶm also a believer in democracy, and Trump did just win the election. One has to respect that 91Ƶ even though he didn91Ƶt in 2020 when he lost. This means that until there91Ƶs another chance to vote, resistance is going to be more about lawsuits when Trump strays outside legal bounds (which is frequently), as well as objecting and speaking out.

There were more than a thousand protesting outside Seattle91Ƶs Federal building Monday, so that91Ƶs a stirring. Better yet would be Republicans remembering some of their professed conservative principles, instead of genuflecting like cowed supplicants.

Many Canadians reported they are feeling less angry than wistful watching all this.

91ƵI appreciate you capturing the feeling of loss that so many of us here feel for what is happening in the U.S.,91Ƶ wrote P. Gerry Nixon, of British Columbia. He said he has been listening to Aaron Copland91Ƶs orchestra work Appalachian Spring 91Ƶ 91Ƶborn of the Depression and the hope of a new deal. That is the America I keep in my heart.91Ƶ

Wrote Jude Kornelson, also of B.C.: 91ƵIt91Ƶs nice to be reminded that the death of the friendship I thought existed between our counties is mourned by you as well, so thank you.91Ƶ

91ƵYou need a Martin Luther King type person to reinvigorate the people to stand up once again and fight,91Ƶ advised Laurel Rousseau of Vancouver Island. 91ƵYour present Democratic leaders in the House and Senate should be ashamed of themselves.91Ƶ

Added Lexie Angelo of Alberta: 91ƵReading your article has been the first moment where I have felt as though one single person in America understands the collective sentiment.91Ƶ

But: 91ƵYour apology, while appreciated, can91Ƶt be accepted in good faith. I hope you know this. Things are about to get worse for both of us. I can only wish that at some dark juncture, Americans with a sense of things-gone-terribly-wrong, admit so much.

91ƵQuiet and cowardly is no way to live. It91Ƶs an even worse way to let a nation die.91Ƶ

Tough but fair. We need to hear what others think of us, so I91Ƶm grateful for all these responses. Even the 91Ƶsun don91Ƶt shine91Ƶ ones. That91Ƶs probably what I would say (or think) if I was them.

What was most unnerving though? Hearing how much more invested Canadians are in the idea and promise of our democracy than we often seem to be ourselves.





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