We91Ƶre all going to die, but most of us aren91Ƶt preparing for it.
And that can mean a difficult time for loved ones, who are left scrambling to figure out what needs to be done when there no pre-arrangements made.
It can be anxiety-producing for many people, observed Shawn Carbonell, family service planner at Bakerview Memorial Cemetery in Aldergrove, who said fear can keep people from making funeral preparations in advance.
91ƵA lot of people feel like if they make the plans, then they91Ƶre gonna die faster, right? It91Ƶs just not true, but I feel like a lot of people have that idea. It91Ƶs either, they fully see the benefits, or they91Ƶre terrified to death.91Ƶ
Jeremy May, owner of in Langley City, described pre-planning as 91Ƶthe one decision that people want to defer the most, either to avoid it, or leave it to others.91Ƶ
May points to figures showing roughly 8,000 people die every day in North America, with only 2,000 of them having made prearrangements.
91ƵThe other 6,000 a day, it91Ƶs a mess,91Ƶ May commented.
Carbonell said it can be overwhelming for survivors if no pre-arrangements have been made.
91ƵWhen a death occurs, the cemetery and funeral home are going to ask so many questions,91Ƶ Carbonell warned.
91ƵLike what91Ƶs your SIN number? Where91Ƶs the deed to the home? How many bank accounts? And they91Ƶre all going to ask that on the day of the death. Some people, you know, they can91Ƶt think of all of these things. They don91Ƶt know where anything is, and it takes a long time.91Ƶ
May said when overwhelmed survivors 91Ƶhave to start making decisions on the spot at two in the morning, you can make ones that are hasty, that maybe don91Ƶt reflect the wishes of the deceased, and they can be costly.91Ƶ
Prearranging does two things, May explained.
91ƵIt allows you to put your wishes down on paper, to let them be known, and it allows you to freeze or lock in the cost.91Ƶ
The moment you leave a deposit, he said, the prices for both burial plots and funeral services are locked in.
That is not a small concern, he noted, with funeral prices rising, on average, 10 per cent a year.
A cemetery plot that cost about $750 when May started in the industry in 1993, is now going for more like $80,000, he estimates, and funeral prices are rising, on average, 10 per cent a year.
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Carbonnell said when people make pre-arrangements, they always feel better.
91ƵI91Ƶve never helped a family where they felt bad for making these arrangements,91Ƶ he said.
91ƵThey91Ƶve always obviously been a little bit scared to make the arrangements, but when it91Ƶs all said and done, and finalized, there91Ƶs just a big sigh of relief and they91Ƶre happy.91Ƶ
91ƵAt the end of the day, it91Ƶs a very simple concept,91Ƶ May said.
91ƵEveryone is going to die, and they need to plan for that. It91Ƶs 100-per-cent inevitable, you can91Ƶt avoid it.91Ƶ
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