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Prince Harry91Ƶs book exposes grief, war, drugs, family rifts

Bereaved boy, troubled teen, wartime soldier, unhappy royal 91Ƶ many facets of Prince Harry are revealed in his explosive memoir, often in eyebrow-raising detail.
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FILE Britain91Ƶs Prince Harry or just plain Captain Wales as he is known in the British Army, at the British controlled flight-line in Camp Bastion southern Afghanistan, Oct. 31, 2012. Prince Harry alleges in a much-anticipated new memoir that his brother Prince William lashed out and physically attacked him during a furious argument over the brothers91Ƶ deteriorating relationship. The book 91ƵSpare91Ƶ also included incendiary revelations about the estranged royal91Ƶs drug-taking, first sexual encounter and role in killing people during his military service in Afghanistan, (John Stillwell, Pool Photo via AP, File)

Bereaved boy, troubled teen, wartime soldier, unhappy royal 91Ƶ many facets of Prince Harry are revealed in his explosive memoir, often in eyebrow-raising detail.

From accounts of cocaine use and losing his virginity to raw family rifts, 91ƵSpare91Ƶ exposes deeply personal details about Harry and the wider royal family.

The Associated Press purchased a copy of the Spanish-language edition of the book ahead of its publication around the world on Tuesday. Its revelations have electrified the British media 91Ƶ but have been met with silence from Buckingham Palace.

BROTHER AND SON

The book opens with a quote from American writer William Faulkner: 91ƵThe past is never dead. It91Ƶs not even past.91Ƶ

Harry91Ƶs story is dominated by his rivalry with elder brother Prince William and the death of the boys91Ƶ mother, Princess Diana, in 1997. Harry, who was 12 at the time, has never forgiven the media for Diana91Ƶs death in a car crash while being pursued by photographers.

The loss of his mother haunts the book, which Harry dedicates to wife Meghan, children Archie and Lili 91Ƶand, of course, my mother.91Ƶ

The opening chapter recounts how his father Prince Charles 91Ƶ now King Charles III 91Ƶ broke the news of his mother91Ƶs accident, but didn91Ƶt give his son a hug.

Harry reveals that years later he asked his driver to take him through the Pont de l91ƵAlma tunnel in Paris, site of the fatal crash, hoping in vain that it would help end a 91Ƶdecade of unrelenting pain. He also says he once consulted a woman who claimed to have 91Ƶpowers91Ƶ and to be able to pass on messages from Diana.

Harry adds that he and William both 91Ƶbegged91Ƶ their father not to marry his long-term paramour Camilla Parker-Bowles, worried she would become a 91Ƶwicked stepmother.91Ƶ

Harry also is tormented by his status as royal 91Ƶspare91Ƶ behind William, who is heir to the British throne. Harry recounts a longstanding sibling rivalry that worsened after Harry began a relationship with American actress Meghan Markle, whom he married in 2018.

He says that during an argument in 2019, William called Meghan 91Ƶdifficult91Ƶ and 91Ƶrude,91Ƶ then grabbed him by the collar and knocked him down. Harry suffered cuts and bruises from landing on a dog bowl.

Harry says Charles implored the brothers to make up, saying after the funeral of Prince Philip in 2021: 91ƵPlease, boys. Don91Ƶt make my final years a misery.91Ƶ

Neither Buckingham Palace, which represents King Charles III, nor William91Ƶs Kensington Palace office has commented on any of the allegations.

WILD TEENAGE YEARS

The memoir suggests the media91Ƶs party-boy image of Harry during his teen and young adult years was well-deserved.

Harry describes how he lost his virginity at 17 91Ƶ in a field behind a pub to an older woman who loved horses and treated the teenage prince like a 91Ƶyoung stallion.91Ƶ It was, he says, a 91Ƶhumiliating episode.91Ƶ

He also says he took cocaine several times starting at the same age, in order 91Ƶto feel. To be different.91Ƶ He also acknowledges using cannabis and magic mushrooms 91Ƶ which made him hallucinate that a toilet was talking to hm.

ARMY REVELATIONS

Harry spent a decade in the British Army, serving twice in Afghanistan. He says that on his second tour, as an Apache helicopter co-pilot and gunner in 2012-2013, he killed 25 Taliban militants. Harry says he felt neither satisfaction nor shame about his actions, and in the heat of battle regarded enemy combatants as pieces being removed from a chessboard, 91ƵBaddies eliminated before they could kill Goodies.91Ƶ

Veterans criticized the comments and said they could increase the security risk for Harry. Retired Col. Richard Kemp said it was 91Ƶan error of judgment,91Ƶ and regarding enemy fighters as chess pieces is 91Ƶnot the way the British Army trains people.91Ƶ

91ƵI think that sort of comment that doesn91Ƶt reflect reality is misleading and potentially valuable to those people who wish the British forces and British government harm,91Ƶ he told the BBC.

The Taliban returned to power in Afghanistan in 2021. Afghan Foreign Ministry spokesman Abdul Qahar Balkhi called the Western invasion of Afghanistan 91Ƶodious91Ƶ and said Harry91Ƶs comments 91Ƶare a microcosm of the trauma experienced by Afghans at the hands of occupation forces who murdered innocents without any accountability.91Ƶ

PERSONAL JOURNEY

Harry credits Meghan with changing the way he sees the world and himself. He says he was 91Ƶwrapped in privilege91Ƶ and had no understanding of unconscious bias before he met her.

The young prince notoriously wore a Nazi uniform to a costume party in 2005, and claims in the book that William and his now-wife Kate encouraged the choice of outfit and 91Ƶhowled91Ƶ with laughter when they saw it. He was recorded using a racist term about a fellow soldier of Pakistani descent in 2006, but says he did not know the word was a slur.

Meghan and Harry cited the U.K. media91Ƶs treatment of the biracial American actress as one of the main reasons for their decision to quit royal duties and move to the U.S. in 2020.

The book gives no sign that royal family relations will be repaired soon. Harry told ITV in an interview to promote the book that he wants reconciliation, but that there must be 91Ƶaccountability91Ƶ first.

In the final pages, Harry describes how he and William walked side by side during the funeral procession of Queen Elizabeth II in September, but spoke barely a word to one another.

91ƵThe next day, Meg and I returned to the United States,91Ƶ he says.

91ƵJill Lawless, The Associated Press





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