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91ƵSay hello91Ƶ: B.C. advocate teaches etiquette of interacting with the blind

91ƵLosing my sight hasn91Ƶt changed me, but it91Ƶs changed the way I interact with the world91Ƶ

A simple 91Ƶhello91Ƶ goes a long way in kicking off communication with someone whose sight is limited, says Gina Martin, who educates all generations through her Diverse Abilities Programs and Training.

The business is based in her Saanich home, but programming spans primary school classrooms to seniors91Ƶ homes across the south Island.

Martin, who is legally blind, is using her communication skills honed over nearly three decades as a server at Paul91Ƶs Motor Inn. The goal is to pave an easier path for others.

91ƵIt took me 23 years to accept my journey,91Ƶ said Martin, who began to lose her sight in 1993.

Facing different opportunities and abilities, no two people have the same experience and it comes down to the individual on how they navigate life.

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She herself did not want to use a cane or in any way draw attention to herself. She hit a turning point in 2015 when she met two confident women who had attended a comprehensive program at the Louisiana Center for the Blind. Inspired, she attended the nine-month program the next year.

91ƵIt was absolutely the hardest thing I did in my life,91Ƶ she said, noting it includes blindfolded rock climbing, white water rafting, bowling and more. But it has a high success rate, with 85 per cent of people who graduate meeting or exceeding expectations, she said.

Martin is among those successes 91Ƶ it taught her in part how to enjoy life differently than when she had her sight.

91ƵLosing my sight hasn91Ƶt changed me, but it91Ƶs changed the way I interact with the world,91Ƶ she said.

So she launched her business earlier this year. Martin teaches on apparent and non-apparent disabilities 91Ƶ noting nine of 10 are non-apparent 91Ƶ and universal design.

Hoping to change perspectives for both those with sight loss and without, her key message is communication.

She took that message to social media recently, hoping to end the silence of awkward interactions on the street or in shops.

The seven key points garnered an impressive response 91Ƶ shared more than 4,000 times, with more than 100 comments of appreciation.

Someone who is blind or partially sighted can often be recognized by a white cane, service dog or even sunglasses. While it91Ƶs important to not make assumptions on their level of sight, the smiles and nods that sighted folk offer and recognize on the street likely go unseen by someone with sight loss.

So say 91Ƶhello.91Ƶ

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91ƵIt91Ƶs one word that can make somebody feel included,91Ƶ Martin said. 91ƵPeople are quiet, they don91Ƶt know what to say. That91Ƶs not helpful for those of us who don91Ƶt see well. It can be unsettling.

So say hi. And if you know them, say their name, maybe offer yours and maybe a context of how they know you.

If it appears help might be needed, just ask: 91ƵCan I help?91Ƶ and if yes, 91ƵHow can I help?91Ƶ

Don91Ƶt be offended by a no.

In person, she also reiterates a few other messages that might seem as obvious as 91Ƶhello.91Ƶ

91ƵAlways talk to the person, and not the person they91Ƶre with,91Ƶ she said.

91ƵDon91Ƶt grab us. That91Ƶs a real thing.91Ƶ Instead of a shout or a grab, verbalize. 91ƵLady with the white cane, there91Ƶs a car on your right91Ƶ is far more informative, helpful and less terrifying.

Oh, and it91Ƶs OK to use the words see, look and watch in conversation.

91ƵWe see look and watch, just differently,91Ƶ Martin said, adding the example of 91Ƶseeing91Ƶ a pink rose through touch and smell. 91ƵI91Ƶm enjoying it differently.91Ƶ

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A simple 91Ƶhello91Ƶ goes a long way in kicking off communication with someone whose sight is limited says Gina Martin who educates the region through her Diverse Abilities business. (Christine van Reeuwyk/News Staff)


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