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Have we traded convenience for emotional well being? Is connectivity worth what we91裸聊视频檙e giving up?

Time will tell. And, I will do my best to make things clear to my little human. The delight he gets from flipping through the pages of a book will be something I try to protect.

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When I91裸聊视频檓 ousted in the years to come, and his peer group gets in there, is where the problem will likely arise.

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