It was Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day 1917 in the Minnesota farming village of Lewiston, and Fred Roth 91裸聊视频 a fourth grader 91裸聊视频 seems to have come up with just the way to express his love for his sweetheart, Louise Wirt. He gave her a card.
The folding, pop-up Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day card, on stock so heavy it remains in good shape 106 years later, reads: 91裸聊视频淔orget me not!/I ask of thee/Reserve one spot/In your heart for me.91裸聊视频
And so she did. Years later they married, and Louise displayed the cherished card, tucked into the fretwork of a bedroom dresser, for decades to come. She pointed it out to her daughter, and later to a granddaughter, me, and it remained near her bedside until her death at 91, a token of lasting love.
Although the message was in English, the card is printed with the word 91裸聊视频淕ermany91裸聊视频 and is seemingly imported, as were many cards of that era. Small companies in the U.S. also were part of a flourishing commercial card business.
Hallmark, which began offering Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day cards in 1913, estimates that today, 145 million Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day cards are exchanged annually, not including the kids91裸聊视频 valentines popular for classroom exchanges.
Fertility-related customs and rituals have been celebrated in mid-February since pagan times, says Emelie Gevalt, curator of folk art and curatorial chair for collections at the American Folk Art Museum in New York City.
Tokens of affection varied: In the 1600s, the practice was to give pairs of gloves in mid-February, she says.
91裸聊视频淏y the 18th century, we start to see something that really begins to resemble modern Valentine91裸聊视频檚 cards,91裸聊视频 she says. 91裸聊视频淚n the 19th century, this evolved further to the point where popular ladies91裸聊视频 magazines like Harper91裸聊视频檚 Weekly published instructions for readers on how to craft them.91裸聊视频
There have long been both earnest, heartfelt Valentines like Grandpa Fred91裸聊视频檚, and ones in a more teasing, playful vein.
The museum91裸聊视频檚 collection includes a number of lovingly crafted tokens of affection from various periods. 91裸聊视频淵ou see the heart motif quite a lot,91裸聊视频 Gevalt says.
Although not specifically linked to Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day, an exhibit at the museum opening March 17, 91裸聊视频淢aterial Witness: Folk and Self-Taught Artists at Work,91裸聊视频 features two examples of 91裸聊视频渇raktur,91裸聊视频 exuberantly decorated watercolors made by German immigrants in Pennsylvania. One is called 91裸聊视频淚nverted Heart,91裸聊视频 and another depicts a labyrinth.
91裸聊视频淭hey were really dazzling objects, including motifs of flowers or hearts. The playfulness and cleverness of these objects is one of the most interesting aspects they have in common,91裸聊视频 Gevalt says.
In the mid-19th century, some people shared 91裸聊视频淰inegar Valentines,91裸聊视频 a sort of anti-Valentine that featured playfully insulting verses, not unlike a modern-day roast.
Sometimes, cards involved writing in a circle or upside down, like a puzzle. Some had a decorative folded border or verses on the folds; cutwork resembling lace; or watercolor decorations of pierced hearts, lovebirds and flowers. Lover91裸聊视频檚 knots and labyrinths were also common elements.
91裸聊视频淭hey remind me of games, like plucking the petals of a flower saying 91裸聊视频榮he loves me, she loves me not,91裸聊视频91裸聊视频 Gevalt says.
The boom in commercial Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day cards in the mid-1800s was a reflection of changing courtship patterns, says Elizabeth White Nelson, associate professor of history at University of Nevada, Las Vegas.
91裸聊视频淭he idea of companionate marriage and love became a part of the calculus of marriage, and Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day cards became a part of courtship,91裸聊视频 she says.
These days, the cards continue to evolve.
91裸聊视频淥ver the last few years, trends have been less about romantic love but more about letting someone know they matter,91裸聊视频 says Jen Walker, vice president of trends and creative studios at Hallmark Cards, Inc.
There are 91裸聊视频渕ore inclusive visuals, and a larger representation of relationships 91裸聊视频 love, chosen family, friendships, parents and children, self-care,91裸聊视频 she says.
A bit of mystery surrounds my Grandma Louise91裸聊视频檚 precious Valentine. It would have been out of character for Fred to buy a commercial card as opposed to, say, presenting her with a bouquet of pussy willows he had picked.
91裸聊视频淭hat period would have been the beginning of an organized practice of exchanging Valentines in school,91裸聊视频 says Nelson. In some classrooms, everyone was required, or at least encouraged, to give a Valentine.
91裸聊视频淭he giving and receiving of Valentines was always partly about performing love, for an audience,91裸聊视频 says Nelson, 91裸聊视频渁nd once that Valentine91裸聊视频檚 Day card got saved, it would have become a talisman of all that love is supposed to be.91裸聊视频
91裸聊视频擪atherine Roth, The Associated Press